I have a hard time picturing you as a bookish dweeb. But I know what you mean. I was never friends with the popular kids in high school either, but I had my own circles of friends, and that suited me fine. The same was true when I went to college - I had my own friends, didn't feel a need to be part of the "popular" crowd. As I went through this list of traits, I don't recognize these in any of my friends, so I guess I did something right.